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So guys, I was hooking up with this guy the other night and realized that some guys just have no idea what they are doing when they go down on me. So I wanted to list a few helpful tips and techniques I just read about recently;)

• Easy tiger
  Don’t just go barging in down there. Take your time, and make sure you are both feeling turned on before you venture south. If you aren’t used to giving head, don’t expect to bring her to a climax in seconds flat. And if you have bad stubble on your chin, forget it; no girl wants razor burns in such a sensitive place.
• Ask what she likes
  You don’t necessarily have to go down on her for several hours – just a few minutes of oral sex can do wonders for your foreplay. Ask her what feels good and if there’s anything that would make it better. Make sure you are both in a comfortable position, or you’ll end up with an unsexy crick in your neck.
• No magic formulas
  Every female is different. There is no point in rigidly following those ‘Ten Easy Steps to Give Her an Oral Orgasm’ articles in lads’ mags. It isn’t like an exam, with right and wrong answers. Sometimes you have to experiment to see what works for both of you.
• Start gently
  Many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening, and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate, and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won’t be enough to tip her over the edge.
• Work it
  Try kissing and licking anywhere between her thighs to turn her on. Move on to the clitoris, starting with gentle licking or sucking. Get her to tell you what motion feels the best, what speed and what pressure turn her on the most. Try it with a relaxed, soft tongue, and change to a firmer, pointed tongue. Some women love an up-and-down licking motion, others like it to go from side to side (like a windscreen wiper), and others still like a circular or pressing-down motion.
• Patience, patience
  When you have found something that works well, keep on doing it! Take a break if you need one, but avoid stopping suddenly because it can be very frustrating for the woman. Ask if she wants you to use your fingers as well. If she says ‘yes’, make sure they are wet before you start moving them around on her clit or inside her.
• Practice makes perfect
  Even if you are both very experienced lovers, it can take a long time to bring the woman to orgasm, so don’t stress out, and keep practicing if that’s what you’re aiming for. It’s worth the effort, and she will most likely be happy to return the favour.

xoxo-Tanya

Hi peeps! I hope you are having a fantastic June!! I sure am enjoying the summer.  The other day I went to masturbate and my favorite vibrator was out of batteries. It inspired me to take a trip to this sex shop down the street called  “pleasure chest”. They have everything from wigs to costumes to sex toys and games…the works!  So I decided to indulge .  I bought a really cute maid outfit, a fire engine red wig and a nice new electric blue vibrating egg. You simply insert the egg in your pussy then turn it on. It has 3 different speeds. I can cum very easily either clitorally or  g-spot..and this number really rocks my g-spot. I’ve already used it several time now and I love it;)

Well I sure am glad it’s the weekend! I am cruising out to the beach with my Orange County girlfriends to get some natural sun and sip some cocktails! Happy friday guys!

xoxo-Tanya

I hope you like it guys!!!! So hot;)

I guess you could call me a bit of a slut, but I really like sex, so I have it a lot. The guy that I am with now is the best fuck EVER! The first time that we fucked, it started with a dare. He dared me to suck on my own nipples in front of him. I couldn’t quite reach my nipples to my mouth, so I walked over to him and shoved my tits in his face and told him that he could probably do better. Then we moved to the couch where I took off my pants and kneeled next to him. I began to suck his cock, feeling it get harder in my mouth. Meanwhile, he was fingering me, playing his skillful fingers inside me, outside me, and all over. I was having a difficult time concentrating through the orgasms that slammed into me.

After about thirty minutes, we finally went to the bedroom. He slid his pants the rest of the way off and climbed on top of me. At first he teased me with his cock, and he finally slid it in. I bucked against him because it was so big that it hurt me, but I finally began to relax and he pumped me hard. I came a couple of times. We did a bunch of different positions, him carefully rearranging our bodies each time for the next position. Finally, he pulled out and slid himself into my tight virgin asshole. I told him to stop because it hurt, but he promised he would be gentle. After a few seconds, I wanted him to pound my ass as hard as he was just pounding my pussy. It felt so good for me, and him too.

I bet you didn’t know I loved anal so much;) “Butt” I do ..LOL;) Thank you for sharing my sexy little story with you! And a HUGE thank you to all of my loyal members and fans;) shooting some brand new and exclusive content next thursday,so stay tuned!

xoxo-Tanya

Well gentlemen, I just wanted to check in and see how you all were;) Can you believe we are already in May!? I wanted to wish you all a belated happy Easter..better late than never;) I ended up spending it with my family. We had brunch at this restaurant right on the beach, it was so much fun!I think I ate the entire buffet.I went to bed pretty early that night with a seriously full tummy;)

Well…nothing too exciting going on in my neck of the woods. I did a little furniture shopping at the pottery barn and got this amazing antique looking coffee table. It has little gold furnished edges on it. I also picked up some of those scented incence oil where you put the sticks in them and they make my pad smell super sexy. Especially when I’m soaking in the tub;) well that’s all for now;) I’m going on a trip to vegas in the morning for a little partying with my girls. Hope you like the set of Jessica J. and I that just came out. Love you and thank you for enjoying my site, I love it!!!

xoxo-Tanya

Well hello to all my sexy fans and friends!  I hope all is beautiful for all you guys!  I wanted to start off by saying thank you to my special fan that sent me an amazing gift card for “Victoria’s Secret” . I went there and bought a bright turquoise bra and panty set that I can’t wait to wear for a shoot!!!

So this month I have been doing a bit of traveling;) Took a short trip to to the Big Apple to do some shopping with two of my girlfriends. As you know I am a sucker for shoes…especially boot..so I def. had to indulge a little. Also went to this amazing japanese restuarant called “Tao”. I ordered an assortment of different fish and meats you cook on this hot rock at your table, def. a high light;) And the decor was something to behold!

When I got back I shot some new stuff for my site;)I hope you like all the kinky new stuff. This weeks release was with Jessica Jaymes and Michelle Mclaren. It was so hot the way they man-handled me. As you can see, I took a mold of Lexington Steele’s cock with a strap on by Michelle , but when it came down to shoot the video, I had her use a big chrome dildo on me…his mold was just too big for my tiny hole…hehe;) But it was super fucking hot..none the less;)

Well guys, I am off to run some errands. I have to get to whole foods and stock up my refridgerator then swing by my my massage place and get my favorite ..a swedish massage;) I’ll be heading out to Jessica’s later this week to shoot some stuff just for you! Thank you for stopping by! Love you guys!

xoxo-Tanya

It’s been so damn rainy lately!!! I have never seen such unpredictable weather. I am a total sunshine and beach girl and this is bringing me down ..lol;) Any who, other than that things are AWESOME! I recently just came from this music and film festival called south by southwest(SXSW) in Texas with my girlfriend and had so much fun…there were hundreds of new bands and bars. It was their 26th tear anniversary! I only stayed for 2 days but it was well worth it. I got out of LA for a second and jammed out to some tunes! Sorry to make this ever so short but sweet but I wanted to say Hi to you guys and I hope you are loving all the new updates!

xoxo-Tanya

Hi everyone! If you are in Cali…can you believe this weather we are having! It is so unpredictable! Hot as hell one minute then boom..freezing! It actually snowed in the Burbank area! Still not hot enough to lay out and tan so I have to go to the tanning bed to keep my skin nice and golden brown or you;) I have however had taken a few trips to the beach. Sooo beautiful!

So last week I went over to Jessica’s and shot some really HOT stuff!!!! I rolled around on her bed and totally played with myself;) then I went a little retro-funk in her green studio with checkered floor! Totally my style! Fun, playful..yet sexy and funky;)….Then it was really on! Michelle Mclaren came over and her and Jessica decided to dominate me. And what better way to do it then using a rubber mold of the huge Lexington Steele’s massive cock!  Michelle strapped it on and really gave it to me while Jessica ate every inch of my pussy..I love having my pussy eaten!

So tonight I’m headed in to hollywood for Jessica Jaymes birthday bash! Going to be a ton of friends , pornstars and rockstars! I love letting loose to some cocktails and slammin techno!Thank you guys for stopping by and enjoy the only place you can find all my new stuff on the web;)

So don”t forget to wish her a happy birthday…it’s actually on the eighth!

xoxoo-Tanya

Hello boys and girls! I really hope you all had a very sexy Valentine’s day!I want to thank every one for all of the lovely cards and flowers;) Made me feel so special! This one was my favorite!!!

I really didn’t do too much. I live out in the OC so I went out with a couple of my girl friends for red wine and chocolate cake one of my favorite restaurants called Mastro’s , it’s a killer steak house. Their macaroni is to die for.

So guys, tomorrow I’m headed out to hollywood to shoot with Jessica Jaymes and Michelle Mclaren. Going to shoot some super kinky all exclusive new stuff for my site! Michelle and Jessica are both super tall and busty like me so you guys are in for a treat!

Well guys, that’s about it! So enjoy all of my sexy photos and vids…it’s the only place you can find me;) and feel free to chat up my forums and tell me your thoughts!

xoxo-Tanya

Hi guys! And happy  Valentine’s Day…a little early;) I like Jessica had a touch of the flu last week so I had to post pone going over to the her studio to shoot! But this week I am back and ready for action! I wanted to include a couple of hot, inexpensive but sexy ideas to spend with that spacial some one on this special day…so here goes!

You can be romantic this Valentine’s Day without spending too much. All it takes is a little creativity and forethought. The key lies in personalizing your celebration and letting your loved one know how special you feel each ordinary day that you are together.

Here are 25 ideas for celebrating your love his February 14th, and throughout the year.

1. Make a memory jar. Take simple slips of paper and write a favorite memory on each one. Be specific, and try to record as much about the occasion as you can. Tuck them into a jar or wooden box, tied with a bow.

The time you spend reminiscing and recording these memories will contribute to your own romantic mood, and what your partner thinks is a plain old box of chocolates will instead be a treasured gift for years to come. Plus, you can add memories to the box for future birthday, holiday, or Valentine’s Day celebrations.

2. Build a romantic fire. Host your own indoor picnic, complete with a bottle of champagne and chocolate-covered strawberries.

3. Recreate your first date together. What were you wearing? Where did you go? Do you remember what you talked about? Spend the evening reminiscing and reflecting on how far you have come as a couple.

4. Spoon.

5. Choose a book in which you are both interested, fiction or nonfiction. Read a new chapter each night before bed. This cozy tradition will allow you to spend some quality time together and often makes for thought provoking breakfast conversations.

6. Make a tape of the songs special to your relationship. Include “your song,” songs from your wedding, songs from favorite movies. Add a personal voice dedication and leave it in his briefcase, Walkman, or car stereo.

7. Turn off the TV and play a game of Scrabble or Pictionary.

8. Write about the feelings you experienced when you first met your mate. Write about the first time you knew you were in love.

9. Frame a new, special photo of the two of you and display it in your home.

10. Have you been holding a grudge against your partner? Today, forgive it and move on. Witness how much power the act of forgiveness injects into your relationship.

11. Kidnap your spouse. A friend of mine had a lot of success with this one. She knew her husband had always wanted to get married in Vegas, but he had agreed to a large, formal ceremony hosted by her family. So, after they had been married 10 years, she surprised him at work with a packed suitcase. They caught an evening flight and renewed their vows before an Elvis impersonator in a Vegas chapel. Years later, they are still talking about it.

12. Travel to another town, where no one will recognize you. Check into a hotel or Bed and Breakfast.

13. Jot down 20 things you love about your partner and slip it under his dinner plate.

14. Cook her favorite breakfast.

15. Choose a book you both will enjoy, and read it aloud together.

16. Have a scavenger hunt. Write a few poems, wrap candy kisses inside, and hide them around the house. Each poem should be a clue to finding the next one. Make sure the final clue lands your mate someplace you want to end up for the entire evening. A romance package, including a bottle of champagne and new lingerie, is a nice touch.

17. Write down fifty favorite memories of your life spent together so far. Invite your partner to add to the list, as well as to share special ideas for the future.

18. Leave a message on her voicemail with a silly, romantic poem. (Roses are red, violets are blue . . .)

19. Make a CD featuring the songs that have been important in your relationship. Slip it into the CD player of her car.

20. Bring homemade cookies or brownies to his office with a simple love note.

21. Surprise her with some bath salts and her favorite magazine. Then take the kids out of the house for the evening so she can enjoy some time alone.

22. Stash a love note in his shoe.

23. Spend some time talking about all the goals you have been able to accomplish during your time as a couple. Reflecting on the things that you have been able to do with the strength of the other, including the challenges, can really help you to remember and to celebrate the depth of your relationship and how you have supported one another through it all.

24. Serve her breakfast in bed.

25. Plan a special weekend getaway. Check online travel sites for prices on weekend romantic getaways, or plan a simple trip to a neighboring town.

Use your imagination to create your own romantic memories today.

Hope you found this helpful guys!

Muah-xoxo-Tanya